For new parents disciplining a child is a confusing idea? They’re probably presuming what the proper methods are needed to done. Should I scold or spank when they misbehave? Sometimes you don’t know or you are not aware that this methods are causing bad to your fear to your children do your really want that relationship with your children? Another question is how effective could this be for your children? Aside from that those kid of disciplining methods leaves a negative psychological effect to the kids and might carry until they grow up. So the real question is “what is the best method in disciplining your kids?”
Of ten parents or elders loose their cool when their child misbehaves and as a result, they turn into scolding and physical punishment. Some parents even humiliate or embarrass their child labeling them with names and such. This kind of discipline often backfires to the parents. And this will only cause your child’s psychological behavior get its worst. Why not try a other approach instead?
Having a good relationship with your child especially during infancy benefits you in implementing discipline. Find the time to spend with your child; parent and child relationship is the core in good discipline of your children. And also this will make your child be confident to trust and respond in you. Be a good model to your children and as I always say, have a good relationship to them. Also, by being attach to them you could also learn from your kids; their attitudes, likes and dislikes and see through them. Being there for them is the best thing a parent could be.
And also, another value that you need to have with your child is to have a good communication with them. Give them good instructions, having an open mind, and listen. This may help in disciplining your child or resolve any conflict with them. Being able to communicate with them will go a long way.
Yes we cannot stop a child from misbehaving. So, what can we do to discipline them without harming them physically or emotionally? One, is implementing ground rules for your kids and providing consequences if they break it. Doing this allows the child to make his decision and learning to own up to his/her mistakes. Another way is to give them statements like you have… then you may.
You should not only give attention to your child’s bad behavior, acclaiming them helps their confidence and will let them know that they are valuable. Giving them a reward if they did something outstanding, means you are commending them for their good work. Keeping through with what you say. Giving them positive emotions will guide them into brighter side of life.
Child Discipline is a very hard task to do for parents, there will be a lot of mistakes that you might perform. Its okay, the important thing is to learn from those mistakes. Build a good relationship with your child, this way he or she will understand why discipline is needed to done. Guide your children do not control them; this is a better method rather than just telling them what to do. Point them to the right direction and let them explore the path on their own.